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Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. I agree that it is a society problem rather than true mental illness. I think the main benefit (perhaps the only benefit) of repathologizing gender identity disorder would be to grant therapists the opportunity to work with trans-identifying youth and adults to address their gender dysphoria through therapy rather than just through medicalization.

As it stands, most therapists are afraid to do anything other than simply affirm a trans identity and work with a youth or even an adult on how they can accept their trans identity, how they can deal with family or others who don't accept it, etc.

As the parent of a trans identifying child, I have struggled to find a therapist who will actually address my child's mental health issues (and I don't mean gender dysphoria). My child had anxiety, OCD, and ADHD before ever deciding she was trans. Now, everything is eclipsed by the trans identity. No therapist seems willing to help her look at the thoughts or experiences that led her to suddenly decide she is trans. Several therapists simply avoid it altogether and have told me they don't "deal with gender issues." Most are afraid of losing their licenses if they don't immediately go along with a child (or adult) claiming a trans identity.

In my opinion, a trans identity is not something a child or adolescent (especially- I'm not really addressing adults here) should embrace without serious introspection and psychological examination. In today's society it seems that so many young people are saying they are trans or non-binary. Perhaps it is the cool thing to do, perhaps it addresses their need for belonging, perhaps it is based on a long-standing feeling about themselves. For some of these people, they may be happy with a medical transition but for many others they will not. Either way, medical transition involves serious and risky surgeries and hormones with side effects (some known and some likely yet unknown). It seems only logical that therapy should be the first treatment for gender dysphoria. Every attempt should be made to enable a person to live happily in their body without surgical or medical modifications. As it currently stands, most therapists avoid really examining or challenging a trans identity at all and simply affirm and actually strengthen the identity.

So, while I do agree that it is not trans individuals who are mentally ill and repathologizing could have unwanted effects in that regard, the benefit would be that therapists could actually treat gender dysphoria, hopefully allowing people to develop an identity that can integrate their sense of self as a man or woman with an acceptance of their male or female body.

Mark Russell's avatar

Thank you for keeping me from riding my wave of self-righteous fury. Honestly, this is a compelling piece, as always. I have been indifferent to causation and pathologizing. For me its not purity politics but more so preservation of innocence and preventing harm. There is an enduring belief preservation that is rock solid when it comes to transistion. Sadly for some that barrier to the mind is impermeable - especially if you capture children when they are young.

I do think your experience matters, even if it is only an N-1. When these experiences mount, like the breasts left behind on an operating table, it should not be ignored. Griffin Shaun Sivret, 24, of Woonsocket, RI died 23 July 2024 in UMASS Memorial Medical Center. Griffin was surrounded by a loving family that all believed in Griffin’s need to make a life saving transistion as a young teen. Sadly Griffin spent years tethered to a colostomy bag, in and out of hospitals. Griffin was the recipient of double-digit surgeries that cost well over $600K. Griffin suffered infections and sepsis until finally the body could no longer endure the years of abuse. Was Griffin mentally ill? Is it any different to the broken mind of an anorexic or addictive disorders?

I still think of the experiences of Yarden Silveira. A young teen caught up in this social contagion, Yarden came to believe the awkwardness of his everyday life was somehow the result of being "born in the wrong body". On 11 March 2021, Yarden's posted about his experiences on the YELP page for Align Surgical Associates. Soon after he posted these words Yarden's life came to an end, he was 23. Yarden was completely broken by those who he trusted. Yarden seemed to realize he was living in a real version of, "The Truman Show" and it cost him his life:

“I wish I never listened to the medical and psychiatric community when they told me it was possible to change my sex. What a lie. Very dangerous and unethical…No one is truly there for me. There's no need to pretend. I have a gaping hole in my genital area with my colon spilling out… What hurts me the most is the loneliness and the inability to find a partner. I can't have a normal sex life. I'm a loser and I probably deserve this deception. This is what I get for messing with nature.”

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